If you and your sweetheart have a specific kink or too, “scratching that itch” is good. There’s nothing perverted in loving to do something new and unusual in the privacy of your bedroom. Experiment, explore and test the boundaries. Get closer together with your girlfriend and continue opening up new facets of your personality.

And curated communities provide you a new possibility to come together with other folks who like the same stuff, so that you can share those amazing escapades stories and lusty innuendo you’ve been thinking about.

What to do?

Let’s say you adore Asian pornstars, but you’ve a white companion.

Don’t lose your heart. Go on Reddit and Tumblr, find some materials that you like. These can be porn videos, pictures and lewd stories.

Mind the global-wide hive mind and become better at catering for you needs. We aren’t saying that you should cheat, but you can actually ask your gf to wear something Asian to the bed and maybe use some sort of a wig.

We all have kinks. The right thing to do is to learn how to use them for having buttloads of joint fun!